Post Agreement Mediation (PAM) is a specialised form of family mediation designed for parents who already have a parenting agreement or Child Arrangements Order in place—whether reached through family mediation or imposed by the Family Court. When these agreements stop working, become outdated, or are no longer practical due to changing family circumstances, PAM provides a constructive, child-focused space to resolve issues and make new arrangements.
Post Agreement Mediation is a structured, solution-focused process that supports separated parents in reviewing and adjusting existing agreements. It helps families avoid the emotional stress, financial cost, and delays associated with returning to court. PAM is led by accredited family mediators who are trained to facilitate communication, manage conflict, and keep the focus on what is best for the children.
Family mediation is a confidential, voluntary process that helps parents resolve disputes through guided discussion. In PAM:
Post Agreement Mediation is now open to families across England and Wales. There are no regional restrictions. All cases are delivered in line with the national mediation standards and eligibility criteria.
PAM is delivered under standard family mediation processes. Costs are aligned with our regular Family Mediation pricing, which can be found on The Family Mediation Trust's website. Legal Aid is available for eligible families.
The Family Mediation Trust is a trusted national provider of family mediation services, known for professionalism, accessibility, and putting children first. Our mediators are experienced in handling complex family dynamics and supporting clients through change with skill, sensitivity, and impartiality.
If you're working with separated parents or families struggling to manage existing court orders or agreements, refer them to us using our Referral Form. We will assess the situation and provide tailored support.
Q: Is this the same as Parenting Coordination?A: No. We no longer offer Parenting Coordination. PAM is a pure mediation process and does not involve any decision-making powers or third-party enforcement.
Q: Is PAM confidential?A: Yes. Mediation is confidential, with exceptions only for safeguarding and legal requirements.
Q: Can PAM work where there's a history of domestic abuse?A: All cases are carefully assessed. Shuttle mediation and other safeguarding measures can be used when appropriate.
Q: What happens if one parent refuses to attend?A: Mediation is voluntary. If one parent declines, we can advise on next steps including other mediation options or court-based routes.
If you are ready to revisit your agreement, avoid court, and put your children first, Post Agreement Mediation can help.